What does the woman So today of a man, since some varieties are:
1)
He will make a lot of money, have a career! Of course he still has to be at home, dealing a further 3 hours with the children, then take out the garbage and vacuuming at 17:00 clock. Afterwards a visit to the theater is followed by a romantic Ohrgesäusel followed on the program of gigantic, tender, sensitive sex.
2)
He stays at home with their children done, the budget, goes shopping, etc. and makes his way. If it comes home, the food on the table. After he brought the kids to bed, he seduced her, no, she does, as befits a real man is! Hard and wild! Thus, a real macho.
3)
He is an artist, wrote poetry, painted stunning pictures and plays at least 3 instuments in a successful band! He always has time for them to have a great apartment in the city, a house in the country and is always dressed in apple pie order. Mommy loves him.
4)
He is construction worker with a muscle-bound body, all craft work done with ease. Directed her to the computer. In the evening they can carry the fire with him deep philosophical conversations. He reads every wish from your eyes.
5)
He is a technically skilled artist with a lot of money, is sensitive, and has a interlektuell waaaahnsinns body. Reads to her every wish of the eyes from. A real man in bed, tender, romantic, wild, submissive dominant. The execution of the budget is a given! Your career is no problem, like he takes off her children and helps her mom out shopping.
None of these types of course are a bit variable would, of course, ever come up with the idea to go with his buddies at the houses to watch football, time to need to see other women behind or otherwise stupid Thoughts come.
So I would feel overwhelmed! But I am also a woman!
Where do now but this (in my opinion) unrealistic expectations? Sad but true .... of our mothers! They tried their daughters on the one hand to train the way they themselves would have liked to be free, Independently, their place in career winning, sexually open, etc., and on the other hand, they conveyed, the man must have money, are the child care, etc. pp. The sons were only educated in the old role models. Conflict was therefore inevitable.
The men were more confused. And rightly so! And yet she tried to adjust to the new (female) world. For so-called macho men were wimps. Also, the fit of the lovely Femininity not. He wrote her poems, bought her flowers, helped in the household, remained with the children and also spoke about his feelings, he was a wimp, etc. Looser. He dared to continue to care for football, time to lay claim to and register your own wishes he was entitled as a macho.
No matter how he made it, it's wrong! Woman wants it all!
love sex mate, but we take it easy, with all its little quirks. Let him his black and white round and having fun with his friends. Do we accept that there is no Mr. Perfect, there is no penny!. And if so, I guarantee it have been a few hundred women discovered in front of us! Trying to change not only him! This is extremely stressful, it costs a lot of energy and is guaranteed to backfire. If have succeed against it, we do not always have everything behind him!
And how boring is perfect! Is this not more lovable in the imperfection?
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